Our biggest sexual blunders are committed without realizing it. In bed we are not perfect, something that must be admitted from the first moment. Even with experience we will not be perfect, because new things are always learned. And that sometimes causes sexual relations to become routine for fear of experiencing new things and making mistakes. But it would not hurt to find the exact point that should mediate between the boredom of routine, which kills passion; and that madness that ends with our bones shattered and our dignity smashed in two, and not exactly laughing. The following are subtle guidelines for caution; Although a good laugh can save even the intercourse with socks or Bridget Jones panties in her best movie days.
Our biggest sexual blunders
- It’s great to spice up the relationship, but bearing in mind that your fantasies are not always his. A Superhero or Little Red Riding Hood costume can feed the morbid.
- Poor hygiene or vulgar gestures kill libido without the right to reply and with little chance of taking it with humor.
- Lack of expertise in unbuttoning a bra or unbuttoning a shirt is beyond anyone’s patience.
- The debauchery must reserve a place for common sense. For example, keep track of the keys to the handcuffs.
- You have to leave the mobile phone in silence.
- In moments of lust you cannot be a loudmouth. What’s the point of talking about an ex, making comparisons, asking for a commitment or planning for the future?
- The leap of the tiger or other sexual exploits are still exciting, as long as neither of the two ends up hurting the most sensitive parts of the other with nails or teeth.
- Each person has a very personal pleasure route that the couple does not have to know if they are not guided properly.
- If we are not very skilled, why insist on the narrowness of the elevator or the little romanticism of the bathroom?
- Persisting in taking the Kamasutra postures as a model can be very ridiculous.
- Sneaky sex is exciting, but your chances of getting caught or committing pretty heated gaffes skyrocket.
- There is no greater clumsiness than insisting on covering up cellulite or turning off the light to hide the love handles. Let the sexuality flow.
- A ‘no’ means a specific refusal, not a personal rejection. Being obsessed does lead to rejection.
- Using sex toys is a creative and positive gesture, but rushing into deploying your repertoire can be a very intimidating blunder.