Sex after the breakup. There are those who think that a breakup is not the immediate end of it. Some believe that the trust the partner has had can be maintained even after the partner breaks up. Others believe that the passion of the first time can resurface at a second time. However, professionals believe that this is not the case. Everyone has their own feelings, emotions and experiences in the end.
Can you celebrate a second chance with your partner with sex? Is a fit of lust the best way to claim that ‘second parts were never good’? Some say that reconciliation has a powerful aphrodisiac effect. For example, it triggers desire, makes us more seductive and achieves extraordinarily intense orgasms. Professionals, however, are more cautious. According to the psychologist Antoni Bolinches: «The exalted and fiery sex of falling in love is only experienced once in life with each couple. If this has already been consummated in the first stage, it will not happen again no matter how hard we try.»
There must be some reason then for those who resume their love and sexual relationship to describe a feeling similar to passion for the first time. «Perhaps it is because the absence of the person we love provokes a desire to be present,» explains Bolinches. Scientists at University College London have found that when we finally have it again we give up blind with love. At least for a moment, we forget quarrels or those episodes that pushed us apart.
Sex after the breakup
What this research means is that when we find ourselves in front of the man or woman for whom we continue to feel a certain attraction, the areas of the brain linked to any judgment or assessment are immediately deactivated. This almost delusional brain trance is temporary, according to the scientists. After a while the lovers seem to regain their sanity.
To sum it up in a brief and very Spanish way: the bitter loves are the most beloved.